Stance... another example

For instance, when your cellphone rings...
what is your immediate response/reaction?

"Do I have to answer this? Who is going to bother me now? What kind of pressure is going to be given to me this time? etc. etc. etc."

"Great! I love to answer the phone."

So, it's not really one's "view" but basic stance to what happens, which you can see through his immediate reaction to things happening to him.

You may not like the way how you react to things, but do not compare this with other people and get bothered. You could also change it if you wish to do so.

Stance for life, I mean...

like some people view that life is a burden... (of course there are some fun sometimes...)
  ...why do these thing happen to my life?...
  ...why my life is always like this?...
  ...do I have to do this again?...
  ...why me? (not him/her? them?)
,which they have to deal with, tackle, persevere, overcome, ... or have to "appreciate" etc. etc.
anyway, something they have to...

other people view that life is something to enjoy...

people view life different way for many different reasons, causes...

That's what I was trying to say

When you have trouble with your stance toward your life...

Don't feel bad when you realized that your stance toward your life is different from someone else
Don't be worried when you feel someone's life situation is "worse" or "better" than yours

Everyone is uniquely and equally loved by God
and have equal chance for his/her life
Remember who you are

You are the HOT DAY FIG! (to be honest, I don't really like this one but...)

You are the

Hero/Heroine
Of
The
Drama
And
Your
Fan
Is
God!

"America" ... my high school favorite

Do not put God into your small box

Be aware of the danger of putting God into your own small box by calling him "God"
Then you might become one of those who dare to kill people in the name of God.
I recommend you keep raising your conscience that has ability to communicate with that being
I also believe that one of the abilities of conscience is to help you keep an objective view about what's happening.
Then, I hope you would avoid becoming one of those who kill in the name of God
I'm not saying you shouldn't call him God, but just be aware of these things
I call him God, too, for the sake of having some conversation.