Thank God for someone not doing things as I expect!

If you ask someone to do something, and if he/she does not do it as you expect, what would you do?
First ask yourself a question, "Did I do myself what I asked him/her to do?"
If your answer is "no" for any reason, then what you can do is that first you do exactly what you asked him/her to do. Then, see what you will be learning in this process.
There will be a lot of reasons why you do not do it, but don't be fooled by them. The simple principle is you do things before expecting someone to do that.
Then you will experience the way how God educates you. Even by making he/she not doing things as you expected, He is trying to teach you more important principle which you should learn. So, in a sense, God is even sacrificing his/her growth in order to make you grow. He loves you at least that much.

I understand it is pretty much subjective, but I believe it is a necessary process to take. Of course it is up to me to choose to take that process or not...