God's words center? or I center?

When you come to judge someone and especially with some religious fervor (in the name of God...), then you will start to use God's words for the sake of supporting your judgment
That time, you may not be aware what you are doing with God's words

Look at yourself
What is the expected way of how I deal with God's words?
I will humble myself before God's words
and through God's words, all my problems will be exposed
and I humbly repent and with God's grace I determined to overcome my problems
then through God's words there will be a process of healing, and renewal
Anyway the point is God's words are the center and I humbly surrender to God's words

But now what are you doing?
I am trying to push my agenda (such as judging someone, blame him, condemn him...) even to utilize God's words for that purpose. ("See, according to this word, he is absolutely wrong..." etc.)
Now I am the center and I am using God's words for my agenda.
So, religion is so scary. Without knowing we find ourselves doing this at times
One day we have to overcome this problem
if we are to live in the world where everybody can live as a family member with no need of even religion