Be careful when you start pointing fingers

I believe the devil's goal is to bring disunity and destruction (so that he can claim everything)
This is pretty easy to understand and also easy to say
Then you would say...

"Hey, you guys are causing this disunity. You guys are the problem. So, you guys must be the Devil." thus ending up pointing fingers on the other party

Be careful! You might have become the powerful part of his plan, especially when you find yourself pointing fingers at someone for any reasons

Because that has been his major age-old strategy to accomplish his goal
--get someone to accuse, or blame someone, saying that it is "your" responsibility (means not mine)

Do not be so easily trapped, and become his instrument without knowing what you are doing

And please do not underestimate his strategy; do not be over-confident; do not say, "I know him too well, his strategy is to create division, that's why what you do is wrong! what you are doing just gives him joy and make God sad."

It is so easy to be saying these things especially when you become emotional
but what you are doing is based on some labeling certain people without considering they are "real" human beings--or, your brothers and sisters with their real feelings, etc.

So, just calm down and seriously examine yourself
How can you look at people so shallow... I know you may be good at math, but...

The only solution is...
to begin with saying that this is my responsibility
and stop pointing fingers at anyone

Take responsibility in finding out what is God's will for you
and what is God's will for the world
and what is God's will for the church

And you need to decide who you want to follow
Do you want to follow your own conscience
or, do you want to follow the majority?
so that you can avoid "fear" of any sort?
You've got to seriously talk to God about this

Anyway, it is not too late
no, it is just a beginning!

And needless to say, this is because you are ... of ... and your ... is ...!