How long can you act like a critic or a commentator?

You will act like a critic or a commentator until one of your closest person gets hurt, discussing and auguing who is right and who is wrong, or, who to blame, who to defend

However, when one of your closest person got hurt, then you cannot be like a critic or a commentator anymore

You will be emotionally driven, so, you already have your conclusion based on your emotion. So, whatever your oponent says, whatever commentators say, no matter how the argument sounds logical from the objective viewpoint... it doesn't matter anymore because you already have your conclusion based on your emotional drive

So, now you realize how difficult it is to treat everyone as one of your family members, or, how your heart is so limited to feel that every person is a member of your family, even though you still could say, "We are one human family."

So, it is a challenge, or, a test that you practice what you believe

or, of course it is an opportunity to grow to be in the next level of your spiritual maturity

God is watching

He will not try to control you while you are using your own free will to think certain way, or act certain way

He may also consider this to be your chance