Trick: blaming without realizing it

I realized that one problem is that I am blaming something even without my being aware of it. But because blaming is against the universal law, we will naturally lose power when we do it. We will lose heavenly fortune when we do it. And the scary thing is that this happens without my realizing that I am, in fact, blaming something. This is kind of tricky, but I believe that realizing this situation would greatly help me live a better life.