Why you cannot control yourself???

Why you cannot get up in the morning?
Why you cannot control your physical desire (hunger, lust, sleep, drink, etc.)?
Why you cannot control your emotion?
Why you cannot stop accusing yourself?
Why you cannot stop blaming someone?

These are essentially because you still have not found someone to live for.

Without having someone to live for, your life is a lonely one.

If your life is lonely now, then your life will be lonely as well when you get to the next world.

But, you are not meant to live that way; you are given the capability to search and find the one (starting from God...)

but how you use that capability is totally up to you; God reserved that special role for you (He didn't plan to take that role away from you)

and, while you exercise that role, you will be resembling him every step of the way--becoming his child, or, growing as his child!