Who is the owner of my life?

There is so much to learn...
The most pathetic thing is to blame someone, or to complain about what happens to me. Whatever situation...whatever reason... however unreasonable... however unfiar... after all my life is my life and not somebody else's--I am the only one who can live my life; I am the only one who can make my life valuable.
That's why complaining is a poison, blaming is the best wasting of my limited time and energy--anyway we are tricked (trapped) to do these somehow... life could be so pathetic...

How about this? Complaining is a chance; Blaming is a chance; if I am unreasonably or unfairly treated, that's a chance. I could not buy those chances even if I would want to pay for them. They are "given". Just use those chances to create my beautiful self--which would move my audience--God (and who else...?) In fact, those are exactly chances for us to use our creativity and free will to create our eternal self--which we will carry into our next world and carry for the rest of my eternal life over there.

After all, I am the one who is making decision by my own free will. I must make a right decision. I can do it as long as I follow my conscience all the time. And when I take ownership over my decision, and over my life, how much happiness and satisfaction that would bring to me! I would tap into my hidden value day after day--life becomes truly a learning experience every day. We have so much to learn, and so much to appreciate. Our life is really short. Let's not waste our time anymore.