I need something that makes more sense

I try not to think that people are stupid. Even if someone seems to be the case according to my view, I still believe that I do have a lot of limitation in understanding the truth 100%. There must be something--some reason, some kind of situation--that I cannot see. Therefore, instead of making a quick judgment about that person, I try to find a view that would make more sense to my conscience. I don't know if it's a good attitude or not, but if I have to admit that certain people are not wise, that really would discourage me... there must be some reason, or situation which I cannot see. Sometimes people cannot express certain things for many complicated reasons, and have to express something different in an attempt to defend/protect someone, which you would never imagine.

In a way, I am challenged to change the paradigm in my value system, or, how I look at things and people. I believe that I really need a real prayer in this kind of situation.